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Zeus and Nan
About five years ago, my grandfather died. He and my grandma had always had a dog, and when he
died, they still had a little black bitser they called Boy-O. Boy-O died a year or so after my
grandpa, and my grandma was then left alone.
We, my husband and I, already had Bob, who we adopted at the age of three (who didn't race and
is a "big girl's blouse" - he was Mr June, the centrefold, a couple of years ago in the GAP
calendar). Knowing how much a dog had always been part of her life, and having lost Grandpa and
Boy-O, we set to work and soon Grandma was persuaded at looking at getting another dog for
herself.
We thought a GAP dog was the answer... and so he was!
My mum and I made the trek out to Sandown after one phone call from Larissa. We had put down
that a senior hound would be ideal... Zeus was 5 1/2 and had reached the end of his "stellar racing
career" (or so Zeus says!!).
We were met by this absolutely enormous creature that half resembled a horse. Bob is a waif -
the Kate Moss of the Greyhounds. Zeus IS his namesake.... a god amongst greyhounds and absolutely
HUGE!
And so my mum and I take this canine example of titanic proportions to meet his new mum,
somewhat fearful of being told he was "too big for an 80 year old woman" as he probably weighed
more than her even then.
But I guess they had a special, instantaneous bond that made them inseperable.
Zeus was HER dog. He slept at the end of her bed, waking her with a cold nose to the cheek if he
wanted to go out. He answered the door bell, even if she didn't hear it, acting as a butler to all
who came calling, greeting them at the door and escorting them to wherever his Mum was sitting.
Indeed, poor Zeus had this used against him... if he didn't want to come inside, she would go to
the front door and ring the doorbell! Zeus knew his job, and Grandma worked out how to get him in.
Problem solved!
Zeus would stand next to Grandma's chair for hours at a time, greeting all visitors with an
affectionate sniff (usually in the crotch), and be the gentle giant who greeted my four and two
year old sons at the door. He would always run the hallway with them, but the only one who ever
went down was Zeus (I suspect he was faking it though). He knew all the girls from Meals-on-Wheels,
being especially nice to those he knew packed treats. The cleaning lady was a great friend, as were
all her visitors - each of whom was implored, with large mournful eyes, to hand over some sort of
treat found in bowls on the table. He especially loved the jubes that were meant to be for the
humans, but...
Zeus is somewhat of a bowerbird... he looks for little treasures and takes them to bed. I'm glad
this seems to be an isolated trait that Bob doesn't display however it is kind of cute to see a dog
grab a nice bedside lamp and slyly take it to his bed! He is very particular about what he steals -
seems this dog has taste - and any time something was misplaced around the house, it could usually
be found on Zeus's bed.
My Grandma died on Tuesday 28th of August. She was in hospital for three weeks before that, and
Zeus was here with Bob.
Zeus cried on the day she died; not before, and not since. I had to tell him, and it was harder
than I thought it would be.
My four year old, after being told GG (Great Grandma) had died, wanted to know if someone had
told Zeus, and if Zeus was sad his mum had died. My son told him again, just in case Zeus had
missed it the first time, and it means so much more coming from a four year old. My son later
stated that when he is bigger he's moving out so he can live at GG's and be Zeus's new Dad.
Zeus was very sad after his Mum died, but will soon be moving to a new house that holds the
promise of walks and a whole lot of love. We would love to have him stay, but space is a limitation
in our house and our yard can only accommodate one greyhound. Zeus will go to live with one of
Grandma's dearest and most treasured friends, someone who knows him and loves him, and he loves
her.
When grandma died, one thing was clear - she wanted to give back to the group who had given her
her best friend for her final years. And so, in lieu of flowers, she wanted GAP to be donated money
in the hope that the wonderful work done by GAP continues and that so many others may experience
the love that is a GAP greyhound.
Thank you for Zeus and the joy he brought to my grandmother's life. Grandma and Grandpa met in
Seymour and spent their early married life there before the war. So it is the place we will soon
head back to, to scatter their ashes.
Two of the loves of her life, both from the one small town.
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